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But if you GO for this act of them being hard to get, you only REINFORCE their frame and now they must CONTINUE their act of being hard to get, even though deep down they really wanted to meet you!!!!And the irony is that if you CAN'T pass this test, they figure you are not a man anyway and they will shut down their attraction to you.That's what makes them feel better, unless they are truly totally self-actualized, (something you yourself should also be working toward) and so far I have not met one person who truly was this way totally, including any woman.And if you DO happen to meet a woman who is truly self-actualized, ALL THE BETTER, that would be awesome too, because such a woman would have ZERO need to play any "games" whatsoever and would have a tremendous positive impact on your emotions and your life. These are all HUGE topics in themselves that you can get the FULL PICTURE on in my programs at The Dating Wizard Website but I'd like to riff on an important part of this, something known as the "shit test" that women give so well.She might be late, but if you get pissed off before you even know WHY she was late, you can ruin a potentially good thing.Maybe she was late because she was so nervous trying to fix herself up to look good, maybe she is late because she's unsure of you, maybe she's late because she doesn't want you to think she's easy.

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For example, you may open up a girl at a club with some casual conversation, and she may tell you something to try to throw you off.At the same time, you would also not be idealizing some woman who you don't know yet.