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It's just gotten more buzz ever since Chloe, the infamous party girl and lead character from Of course, I’m not the only 20-something who jumped into a rotation immediately following a breakup.
Nina, a 25-year-old accountant living in Chicago, started hers after a four-year relationship ended. And, Monica*, a 25-year-old producer in New York City, can also echo the experience.
And, since I don't have a top-notch memory, it also requires keeping a handy list in my phone.
The logic behind multi-dating isn’t rooted so much in the need to distract oneself with a bunch of dudes following a breakup (although it totally can be) as it is in what men have long called "playing the field.” And, it's certainly not a new concept.
“It helps to be selective and seek people who are independent enough to not need lots of attention or you get sucked in to a relationship-like situation quickly.”Then there’s the slippery question that looms: I know I can casually date a few people at once, but is it possible to have strong feelings for more than one person at a time?
) probably isn’t the best thing for my self-esteem.
And, as I continue to meet more men, I've realized that perhaps I been distracting myself from the lingering pain of my last relationship and the uncertainty of my career.
“I could only juggle three people at a time for one-month spans before it got out of hand — someone would freak out or want commitment,” she says.
“I dated someone for nine months that came out of a rotation.While they’re serial dating, they’re losing out on opportunities to date other great people.” agrees.